Most people who decide to grow personally find their first mentors in the pages of books. But at some point, you must find personal models too. If you follow only yourself, you will find yourself going in circles.
The process of growing with help of a mentor usually follows this pattern: It begins with awareness. You realize that you need help and that following yourself is not a viable option for effective personal growth.
When a person comes to such realization, one of two things can happen. The first is the person’s pride can swell up and they cannot bring themselves to ask for another person’s advice. The other reaction to awareness is to humble yourself and ask for help.
Choose Mentors and Models
- A good mentor is a worthy example
- A good mentor is available
- A good mentor has proven experience
- A good mentor possesses wisdom
- A good mentor provides friendship and support
- A good mentor is a coach who makes a difference in people’s lives
* Source: The 15 Invaluable Laws of Growth by John C. Maxwell