- The average human life is relatively short.
- You will only ever live the life you create for yourself.
- Being busy does NOT mean being productive.
- Some kind of failure always occurs before success.
- Thinking and doing are two very different things.
- You don’t have to wait for an apology to forgive.
- Some people are simply the wrong match for you.
- It’s not other people’s job to love you; it’s yours.
- What you own is not who YOU are.
- Everything changes, every second.
I promise…
- I will accept everything I am, and everything I am not.
- I will appreciate others for who they are.
- I will speak kindly and consciously to others.
- I will speak kindly and consciously to myself.
- I will stop trying to control everything.
- I will appreciate the beauty of small moments.
- I will do what I think is right.
- I will grow from my challenges.
- I will realize and use my power.
- I will follow the path my heart longs to take.
- I will have some fun while I’m doing it all.
- 預設最壞狀況：用不同觀點，把問題看透徹
- 到手的事立刻處理：小事馬上解決，保持桌面淨空
- 凡事設定目標：透過短期目標，達成長期計畫
- 錯了，主動承認：坦白認錯，盡快道歉
- 控制情緒：找到發洩管道，不散播怒氣
- 體貼他人感受：設身處地，強化同理心
- 大量閱讀：建立記憶資料庫，思考更周延
- 學英文：閱讀世界，培養國際視野
- 不斷改善：每天改善1%，從平凡到卓越
- 找職場導師：尋求專業引導，啟發思考
- 聽的比說得多：說話前，先聽人說
- 正向思考：先做最壞打算，再樂觀期待
- 寫筆記：建立記憶資料庫，思考更周延
- 記住別人名字：喊出他人姓名，是最大的恭維
- 每天反省：沒有反省，就不會有進步
- 保留獨處時間：騰出勿干擾時段，靜心思考
- 不挑工作：從雜事小事中，磨練領導能力
- 提早到：早到才是準時，準時就是遲到
- 敢秀自己：積極推銷自己，主動創造機遇
- 早到：創造時間，兼顧工作和家庭
- 每天運動：鍛鍊體能，保持思考清明
- 靜坐冥想：屏除雜念，徹底放鬆身心
- 不亂花錢：不該失去的，一塊錢也不放棄
- 關懷家人：調整工作節奏，與家人相處
- 清淡飲食：吃的營養適量，維持身體機能
- 簡化生活：穿的簡單得體，省心又省事
The Millionaire Messenger
Make a Difference and a Fortune Sharing Your Advice
Brendon Burchard
20110906
About This Book
This book builds three central arguments:
- Your life story, your knowledge, and your message – what you know from experience and want to share with the world – have greater importance and market value than you probably ever dreamed.
- You are here to make a difference in this world, and the best way to do that is to use your knowledge and experience (on any topic, in any industry) to help others succeed.
- You can get paid for sharing advice and how-to information that helps others succeed, and in the process you can build a very lucrative business and a profoundly meaningful life.
- Acronyms – Words
- Acrostics – Sentences
- Mental Pictures
1. Textbook Reading
Step 1. Break a long reading period into short reading periods (30 minutes)
Step 2. Use 25 minutes to read, then use 5 minutes to review
Step 3. Have a 5-minutes break
1. Prepare for lectures
• Review the previous notes
• Preview the text
2. When in doubt, write it down
3. Go on a diet
• Use abbreviation
• Leave out unimportant words
3 Problems
- Pseudo listening (Fake)
- Selective listening (Distractions)
- Critical listening (Criticize)